How to stay calm at work

Do you have a job ? Most of us might still do and sometimes events at work makes us angry or worried. But reacting to our anger and worries might further damage our day and lives. Today , we will discuss how to stay calm at work. Yes, I know this is easier said than done but in the current economy we might and should do everything needed to keep our jobs. However,staying calm and composed will go a long way.

How to stay calm at work:

1. Avoid replying to email when you are AngryDon't react immediately to emails that annoy or frustrates you.Don't let them tick you off. Sometimes we just have to step away from our desk and go for a walk then resolve issues.

2. Think Good about peopleWe want people to think good about us ,so we don't do the same. We must do on to
others as we like others do to us. If we always think that our boss and co-worker are out to
get us then we will always be paranoid and act paranoid. There will always be some rotten eggs ,so we have to figure out how to get along with them.

3. Surround yourself with thing that calm you down.

Having calming item in your work area might help you stay calm. I have some great quotes in my cubical. One of my favorite is "Never loss you place in the world". I also have things my children created for me and of course I try to have an occasionally cup of coffee or tea.

4. Work is only part of our livesRealize that our jobs are only a part of our live;it is not our life. Our families and friends also play important parts in our lives. Even it we lose our jobs then life goes on. Losing our jobs is not the end of the world. Life will go on with or without us. It is a privilege to wake up everyday so make the best of it and don't throw it a way by crying over spilled milk. Don't worry there will be more milk. But another day in not guaranteed to anyone. Stop worrying and start living.

STAY CALM AT WORK.

How to make people NOT like you

We are all human being ,and we crave acceptance. But some times we make enemies and are the cause of people avoiding and hating us. If we want people to hate and avoid us then we should do the following things.

1. Talk about Yourself

The world does not revolve around us. Sometimes we need to find out what else is going on in the world around us and stop talking about our local news. We are important but so is everyone and everything around us. Give others the opportunity to talk about themselves.

2. Not Remembering Name

People will despise us when they remember our names and we forget their names.
Wost yet you could say hey there Tim and the person's name is actually Steven.
Steven (not Tim) may be the director of HR ,and he will remember your name is James.
You got that Bob;sorry,you said that it was Arthur right. Woops, I did it a gain.
Making a connection between a person's name and something or someone you know will
help you remember a person's name.

3. Not Listening

We love to talk and talk and talk. But it is not easy to listen. Some of the best speaker in the world are the best listeners. The old joke that says that we should talk less and listen more because we have one mouth and two ears is absolutely on point. Try listening to your partner,child, and co-workers before you give your input or CUT THEM OFF. STOP CUTTING THEM OFF. IT IS RUDE AND ANNOYING. Listen more talk less.

Do something everyday!

Free Online Courses

A good education is priceless. But what do you do if it is too pricey ? Being educated does not only meaning going to colleges and getting a formal education. Being education means actually knowing something about something.

There are some great resources online that will help anyone get an education for FREE. The educated and smart folks over at education-portal.com compiled a list of Universities with the best free online courses.

Universities that Stood out were:

1.Stanford (stanford.edu) Stanford Courses on iTunes U

"Stanford University, one of the world's leading academic institutions, has joined forces with iTunes U in providing access to Stanford courses, lectures and interviews."

2.Massachusetts Institute of Technology (mit.edu)
Free MIT Courses Online

"More than 1,800 free courses are offered through the school's OpenCourseWare project. Courses are in text, audio and video formats and translated into a number of different languages."

3. Carnegie Mellon University (cmu.edu)
Free Carnegie Mellon Courses Online

"Course options include such offerings as statistics, biology, chemistry, economics, French and physics."

The best things in life are priceless.

Universities With The Best Free Online Courses-[education-portal.com]

Ways to save money in a recession

Yes, we are in a recession but it is not the end of the world. Things will get better but we are in the phase of things getting worst before get better. Saving money is not a option these days it is a necessity. The are some great website that could help us land some freebies or some cool discounts.

Today,we will look at some ways to save money and websites that will help us for the rainy days we are in.

1. Use Promo Codes

You can find promo codes for almost everything for airline tickets to bread to domain names. You can save as much as 50% or get free free shipping with promo codes.If you are looking to
not pay full price then it will be worth your time to visit some of these promo codes sites. Stop paying full price by using promo codes.

currentcodes.com
"Find Promotional Codes, Discount Codes, Coupon Codes, and more for your favorite online stores."

promocode.com
"Online coupons and promo codes from PromoCode.com are your way to save money when shopping at hundreds of online stores." They will also email you as coupons and promo codes become available.

promo-code.com
Just promo codes and nothing to join.

2. Keep a record of your spending

We have to take blame where it is due and some of us are in our financial woes because we dug ourselves into a hole. There is still hope ,but it will take hard work and commitment. There is help online.

budgetpulse.com/

As per budget pulse,
"BudgetPulse.com is a new financial management service designed to help track your budget and manage your money. Besides tracking expenses, assets and bills against income, it helps to build an ideal budget by laying down milestones in expenses at regular intervals. This makes BudgetPulse key for smart spending and saving based on your earnings."

3. Burrow don't Buy:

The library is one of the biggest money saving secret most people overlook. The other day, I went to the library ,and I was amazed to see the traffic. It seem the these people realize that they could save a few bucks in these hard time by burrowing book ,DVD, and even wii games from the library. If you burrow instead of buy then you could save about $100 a month or more. That could be a saving of at lease $1000 a year.

However ,it might not be easy to find a in your area. This site below could help.

NLS :Find a Library

Try these tips and and your saving will amaze you.

Do something everyday.